Win Your ExBack Today

Do you still believe that husband is God (Pati-Parmeshwar) or you consider marriage a partnership for living together and to what extent you adjust with your husband for happy and harmonious life including showing love and affection for parents-in –laws and other relations of your husband.

In earlier issues of the journal many aspects of married life, marriage, pitfalls in married life and about marriage compatibility have been discussed. One of readers ‘had specially asked ‘how is my husband’ though while having personal consultation. For the benefit of all our readers, the qualities and characteristics have been discussed with reference to his sign (with reference to his date of birth). PLEASE NOTE THAT THESE ARE JUST GENERAL OBSERVATIONS AS PER VERIOUS VERSIONS GIVEN IN THE CLASSICS AND NOW BY MODERN AUTHORIS. Therefore, don’t take anything to your head. Its Editor owes no responsibility for any action one may take in any walk of her/ his life.

Some medications may be possible on account of mode of marriage, tradition marriage, love marriage or other personal bond between the husband and wife. In one case, both partners agreed that the wife shall not cook the food- then have either maid- servant or eat outside. This is one example of adjustment.

Now Know in detail about your husband through their Sun Signs

The husband and wife or partner, if married legally or by an agreement, are the wheels of a chariot to make life happy and successful. If both understand each other and supplement their efficiencies, deficiencies properly and knowingly, there is full scope to avert frustration and disappointment.

Characteristics of the sign rising on Ascendant (Lagna) should correspond to oneself where as the rising on Descendant should be considered as that of the partner, viz, Aries- Libra, Taurus- Scorpio etc.

Description of each sign will be helpful to understand each other and to adjust physical as well as psychological i.e. by conduct.

“HUSBAND with Aries sun sign”

1. The husband is a very desirable person, usually he selects a beautiful, romantic and spendthrift. Rash and passionate. He is an electrically charged dynamo. One can depend on him for excitement.

2. He has creative energy, is passionate and warm, impatient, bold and confident. Generous and intolerant. Unless his wife is a Scorpio. he is passionate with every and any woman who could ask. When he is in love he is then scrupulously faithful, loyal and devoted. She should be ready to greet him with all her charms when he is with her or when he comes back from office. In case she neglects his romance, she can be heartbroken.

3. He is possessive and jealous to the extreme: Due to his rash behavior in driving. He can get head or face injury, cuts or burns. He may change jobs frequently unless he becomes own boss. Normally devoted to children.

4. Professions connected with him are army, defense department, surgeons, police, chemists, law, Accounts, MBA iron, steel, machines, factories, engineering industry or sports goods.

5. He wants a fair lady, ultra feminine. He expects praise from her but never a slave. When his ego has been wounded and things beyond his control happen, it will make him sarcastic, bitter and cruel, so she should understand him. He believes in forgive and forget. She will have to like all his friends. He will dominate the home or leave it, she has to adjust. He is a man’s man. Devoted to children and a little bossy over them, but do not to worry at all. He does not like her to run to clubs every night. Finally the lady, has to manage all this to be a good housewife and have a hold over him, so that she can enjoy a happy married life.

“HUSBAND with Taurus sun sign”

1. Taurus Lagna Husband is devoted to his wife, reliable, generous and faithful. He will never neglect the house and her needs. He likes to see his wife well dressed, attractive and pleasing. Cooperative and will love her extensively. Practical, not very romantic, lacks in taking decision. She should apologies to him for her mistake. He is of stubborn mood, he will protect her always. He is extremely patient, too practical, likes his freedom too much. He will not like or tolerate her bullying him in public.

2. Financially, he is usually excellent. Less accumulation of wealth indicated. He does not like her to be a kitchen slave. Affectionate, loving, warm and a sympathetic father.

3. Loves comforts, beautiful surroundings and pleasing partner. Sexual attachment is a prominent attribute and even temporary separation is felt by them to be unbearable. Persons born with Kartika and Mrigasira Nakshatra are bit rash in their manifestation but with Rohini are fond of easy living and luxurious life. His love is plain, simple and honest.

4. He is not very romantic but is strongly attached to the opposite sex but does not waste time chasing anybody. He seldom worries and is not nervous. Love of food and drink makes him overweight which needs to be avoided. He starts with solid foundation and progresses slowly, until he builds a stable business and settles down in service and has a stable bank balance through hard labor. His ideas are sensible and thoughtful.

5. He can be an accountant; a double career will be his spatiality. He may trade in cosmetics, luxury goods, scents, jewels etc. Any business connected with finance, agriculture or music, Transport business, cinema actors, film producers etc. Dealers in ladies garments, school dresses etc. are suitable.

“HUSBAND with Gemini sun sign”

1.      Gemini husband wants a yes wife. He can put an abrupt end to romance or married life if he finds it a source of expense and loss and cannot tolerate an overbearing wife. He has changeable personality. Love, ecstasy, intelligence, idealism, sorrow or joy- these merciful changes of Gemini’s expression are very fascinating. He can change love affairs, his job, his residences as quickly as he change his mind.

2.      Agile and taller than average; may have sharp features. The eyes are restless, alert and quick moving. He is sympathetic, friendless and unusually quick, but has graceful movements. Practical and adjustable. Argumentative, witty, sharply satirical and of changeable nature.

3.      In love, affairs he gives a nice outwardly sense of warm security. He has a restless and unpredictable spirit. He likes people, is a favorite with opposite sex, and has exquisite taste. After meeting him,, you will find him exciting, interesting, intelligent and feel drawn towards him. He is not possessive or suspicious. Love is not a strictly physical relationship with this man.

4.      For your Gemini husband, keep things cool and light, and not be very passionate or dramatic. Do not bore him always. Be as alert and interests in life as he is. He seeks a mental companion above all else. A Geminian tries to discard old friends for new ones due to his nature. There is seldom very deep lasting attachment to old memories, places, people and things. He is gregarious and hates, even fears, being alone. Do not leave him alone.

5.      Geminians have   interest in varied jobs as they are active, alert and industrious. Being good speakers, intelligent and humorous are fit for political. Other professions are broker, share market agents, businessmen, secretaries, scientists and advocates. Also journalists, travelling agents and jobs connected with them.

“Husband with Cancer sun sign”

1.      Such husbands are devoted to their wives. They would like to marry a homely girl and not a career one. They keep them cheerful, pleasing them in all ways. If critical, he interferes in routine household matters and creates unpleasant atmosphere.

2.      Mostly of changeable mood, has uncanny sense of publicity, has ups and downs in life, has fertile imagination is sentimental, sympathetic, talkative, Emotional and has a strong conventional nature and is romantic. Life without romance is monotonous to him, loyal, sincere and affectionate in love but lacks in expression. He is secretive, generous and helpful to needy persons.

3.      He flirts and is fickle minded. His changing personality puzzles you devoted and emotional. In case the birth is in Pushya Nakshatra, forced separation due to calamity or inevitable divorce indicated .In case of Ashlesha he is skilful in handling the partner and establishing himself independently from the family to create an empire of his own. Selection of girls for love or marriage is a problem for him and may take some time.

4.      To please him be dressed nicely speak sweet words respect his mother and do not throw away his old things. Go with him to pleasure resorts clubs etc. He is fond strap good food, money and children.

5.      Cimmerians have commercial career. May be sailor in Navy, Shipping Department import or export transport and travel.  Also a good caterer restaurant manger orator preacher contractors interested in developing Vedic and sacred texts.

“Husband with Leo sun sign”

1.      Leonions are deprived of real and enjoyable married life for one reason or another in later life. Being fiery they have intense love and sincerity towards their partner but they rarely get a sportive and jolly partner. They are influenced by the opposite sex. Persons with Poorva Phalguni Nakshatra enjoy married life in the real sense whereas with Uttra Phalguni it is not so. They are

I want to help you figure out how to win your husband back and in the next few minutes I believe you will feel more informed and confident in the steps you must take and the mistakes you need to avoid. You may only get a few opportunities to win him back so let’s work together and get you as prepared as possible.

Now before we get started I just want to get one thing out of the way. If your relationship was filled with abusive or destructive behaviors I would like you to think long and hard about getting back together with your husband unless things have changed. There’s no since re-uniting quickly if it’s not safe for you. I’m not saying you shouldn’t try to win him back but take into consideration your well being.

Do you think it’s possible to go back to how you were when you first met? Is it possible to get back those feelings of attraction when just the sight of his face made your heart melt and butterflies appear? Well, sometimes it simply takes making a committed effort to be the person you use to be and who he fell in love with. Keep a positive attitude and make sure your husband still enjoys being around you and talking with you. No negativity because that will only push him away.

If your breakup just occurred then I believe the best thing you can do is not panic but take a step back. Your husband may need a little time and space and it’s going to be this time apart that you use to gear up for the re-uniting and getting back together.  Don’t let your husband feel like he has you twisted around his little finger or control your emotions. You are important and valuable with or without your husband so keep your cool and things will fall into place.

One of the first things you want to do to win your husband back is figure out what the real cause of the breakup was and why you want to get back together with him. Was it a lack of communication or perhaps was one or both of you not 100% committed to the relationship? Could there have been a little jealousy or possessiveness involved? Did one of you begin to fall for someone else? Whatever, the reason for the breakup you’ll need to figure it out before you can get him back.

An important key to win your husband back is to avoid saying the wrong things, especially at the wrong time. You need to be careful and thoughtful or you could hurt your chances of getting your husband back. Don’t use terms like “you made me” or “because of you” or “if you hadn’t”. Those are all finger pointing kind of statements and will only make your husband agitated that all you can do is play the blame game. Even if you know some of the faults of your husband, there is no need to highlight them now. Your goal is to get your husband to want you back not dislike you even more.

You have an advantage over others who may be trying to win the heart of your husband so use it wisely.  As you try to win him back, take the positive experiences in your relationship and use it for good. If given the opportunity, share one of those tender moments or shared memories in a light hearted way. If you need to meet and go over some things as you unwind the relationship do so in a place where you have fond memories.

Listen attentively to your husband when you are in conversations and try to read between the lines. Pay attention to body language and facial expressions if you actually get a chance to talk face to face. So many times a husband sends signals that he would like to undo the breakup but the signals are missed. Look at how he is looking at you or not looking at you. What happens if you lightly put your hand on his? Does he feel comfortable or kind of uncomfortable?

Don’t be afraid to ask your husband to try something you use to both love doing (as friends) back when you first started dating. Perhaps bowling or running or going to a ball game. It should be something your husband liked to do and you can make it clear that there is no pressure to go and you understand if he is not comfortable. If you don’t ask you will never know what might have been.

Keep your contacts with your husband focused and to the point unless he is willing to spend more time talking via phone, in person or via email. You need to make sure you aren’t being too pushy or clingy in trying to win your husband back. You want to make sure you don’t overdue it regarding how often you try to communicate with your husband and make sure you are always pleasant and polite.

Make sure you aren’t sarcastic when communicating with him.  Please don’t ever say “hey didn’t you get my email” or “I was waiting for your return phone call”. These are irritating statements and no one likes to be spoken to in a sarcastic manner. Keep a smile on your face and joy in your heart, even though your heart has been broken. You can smile because you know you are working your plan to win your husband back.

Maintain your self-esteem and take care of yourself while you are waiting to win your husband back. Make sure you keep your normal beautiful stylish look going. Although you may be hurting on the inside let the outer you continue to shine. Your husband should see the person he is getting back together with e.g., someone who loves and cares about herself.

Realize that couples all over the world get back their lover after a breakup. Does it mean that you will to? Only time will tell but you need to believe in your heart that it’s the right thing to do and you can make it happen. Remember, as long as you both are still breathing, there is hope.

Don’t try to argue and fight with your husband about the breakup and think you can win the argument and his heart. There are very few people who can be convinced in an argument to reconcile the relationship. If you start arguing with your husband the only thing it will do is convince him why it was good that you broke up to begin with. Remember, the goal is to win back his heart.

It’s a good idea not to be consumed by the breakup. There is a good chance you can slip into a state where all you do is think about your husband. If you aren’t careful the breakup can lead to pain in other areas of your life like your performance at work or relationships with family or friends. Do things that make you happy and bring you peace as you work on figuring out how to win your husband back.

Here are some additional tips for you to consider

Don’t try to make your husband jealous by being with someone else and don’t get jealous of your husband’s relationships. Jealousy can really drive a bigger wedge between you and your husband and kill your chances of getting back together.

Respect the wishes of your husband and don’t be overbearing. It might seem like if you stay in the face of your husband eventually he will break down and come back. If he asks you not to call then be patient and respectful and do as he asks. The time will come when it’s ok to communicate if you don’t disrespect your husband or agitate him.

If your husband lets you know that he would like to remain friends don’t pass on the chance of staying connected. This is like having gold in your possession. A little patience, focus and persistence and who knows what can happen. You might be able to quickly turn things around and win him back.

Don’t try to trick your husband into coming back by pretending that you have changed. If you lie to your husband it won’t take long to realize that you haven’t changed. If you believe there are some things you need to change for the relationship to work then by all means make the changes.

Be honest and open with your husband and don’t try to hide your true feelings. The one thing your husband needs to see is your transparency. Don’t try to be someone who you are not or hide the real you just for the sake of getting back together. It can easily all fall apart if you try to be the person your husband wants you to be instead of the person you really are.

Avoid appearing to be stalking your husband. There is no need to conveniently show up at his job or coincidently show up at the same restaurant he’s dining at. Your husband will see right through you and instead of thinking “how romantic” maybe thinking “how creepy”. If you succeed in winning back your husband it will be naturally and not forcefully.

Don’t sit around waiting for your husband to come running back. It can happen but sitting around is not the normal way it happens. Sometimes even though an ex wants to get back together, pride, fear, anxiety and stupidity can get in the way. Your job is to ready yourself and create the right environment to win him back.

It’s vital that you don’t get involved with someone else while you are waiting for your husband to come back. How can you expect him to believe that you really care if you have a significant other already?

Never use family or friends to try to convince your husband to get back together with you. This can result in permanent relationship problems as family and friends usually take sides in breakups. You don’t want a rift in relationships that you have to repair, after you have rekindled your relationship.

How great is it going to be when you get your husband back and hurt, tears and pain are replaced by joy, peace and happiness?

I want you to experience the loving relationship you once had and still desire.

If you want this too then please take 2 more minutes and see some key steps you can take to help win your husband back starting today.

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